Feel the Love

Make your relationship extraordinary, even if that currently seems impossible.

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Can you really get your relationship back on track? Is it possible to heal after so much damage has already been done? Can you actually reconnect after this much distance and tension? Can you ever be happy together again? 
Can you bring back the feelings that have been lost?

The answer is YES! If you both want to restore your relationship, you’re both willing to put in the work, and if it’s in your highest good, for both of you to stay together. Yet clients ask me this all the time because it often seems impossible.

I can relate. My marriage was a mess too, before we did the work…the very same methods I created for my marriage, and now share with clients just like you. I know they work because they have helped thousands of people, and I know first-hand just how well they work, because we were the first clients.

But I get it… sometimes it seems like everything is against you as a couple, and a really happy relationship might be available for other people, just not for you.

I was there. My first marriage was a disaster and my second marriage was tested traumatically. Once I finally learned how to create and sustain HAPPY LOVE, I promised to dedicate my life to helping YOU create and enjoy, ongoing HAPPY LOVE. 

Whether it’s just a little bump in the road, a rut, or a total black hole… no matter how ‘stuck’ you and your partner may feel…let’s get you unstuck. And especially if there has been infidelity, I can help! There is an art to creating a happy relationship, that I would love to teach you. It makes everything SO MUCH EASIER! And let’s face it…. YOU BOTH DESERVE IT. Without the methods and skills that I will share with you, relationships are hard. But they don’t need to be!

If this is speaking to you…Let me build a plan for you – as my gift to you - to help you both get your relationship back on track. Schedule your free relationship support session today.

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As a couple, working with me on YOUR RELATIONSHIP LIFT, you will:

You will also:

Imagine how amazing you’ll feel, once you:

So, are you?...Ready for more love, connection, ease, joy, communication and passion in your relationship?

I would be honoured to serve you as Your Marriage Mentor

I am here for you, to help you become the couple you’ve been dreaming of, or help you get back to being the couple you used to be.  It’s time to breathe some fresh air into your relationship, some hope, some new tools and methods that work, plus some laser focused action plans to bring you the results you want in your relationship, and FAST:

  • Less fighting
  • Open and authentic communication
  • Loving touch
  • Reignited passion
  • A healed past, with closure
  • Space to fully be heard and to have your needs met
  • Calm tempers, kindness, fun and adventure
  • Enjoyable quality time that helps you fall in love with each other again
  • Real honesty, fidelity, and trust
  • A unified vision for the future you’re creating together

I have created a five-step process for transforming your relationship, called the I.D.E.A.L. Love Method, and six proven techniques to help you create an extraordinary relationship… even if that currently seems impossible.

This is the very same process, and the actual techniques that my private clients used to get the relationships they were craving.

The I.D.E.A.L. Love Method:

  • I = Inventory – Take Stock of Where You Are Now
  • D = Design the 2.0 Version of Your Relationship
  • E = Eliminate Roadblocks and Discover What’s Holding You Back
  • A = Action Plan… Map out Your Path to Success as a Couple
  • L = Learn the 6 Secrets (which are skills and tools) of Happy Couples

My mission is for you to love your results, love yourselves and love one another. My clients tell me that working with me immediately decreases stress, overwhelm, and anxiety, and that they felt so much relief after just the first session. Many couples touch for the first time in a long time, after their very first session.

I can’t wait to give you the same incredible experience of hope, relief, clarity and results. More joy, more connection, more laughter, more romance, more fun, more peace and greater ease in your relationship. It’s time to get you two unstuck! Your relationship is worth it! And if it is no longer worth it, or safe to be together… if it is not in your highest good to be together anymore…then let’s do a gentle and loving uncoupling if that is what’s best for you. But if being together is what you want, then we might as well make it wonderful.

My Journey

As a happily married mom of three, I am blessed to have a happy marriage now, but it wasn’t always this way. First, we had to make our way through:

  • A very challenging and scary divorce from my first marriage that left me in financial ruin.
  • Becoming a blended family and moving to a new city, starting over.
  • My husband’s emotional infidelity when I was pregnant with our middle son and the trauma, grief, and healing that came next.
  • A great period of adjusting, when my husband became a stay at home father and I became the sole breadwinner for our family of four, and then 18 months later, our family of five. 
  • My own health challenges that sometimes leave me in a wheelchair, and times where I nearly lost my life.
  • Being parents to three very spirited boys who each have their own unique gifts and health challenges, ranging from ADHD, Tourette Syndrome, Anxiety, OCD, Dyslexia, a Genetic Chromosome Disorder and a Traumatic Brain injury.

Now that we are so happy together, as a couple and as a family, I just want to share the love with you. Luckily, you can benefit from all the mistakes we made and the lessons we learned, so that you don’t have to go through the pain that we did. I’ll give you the smart steps and the short cuts to creating your happy relationship and heal from the damage of the past, while helping you avoid costly relationship mistakes that most couples make.

I am here for you, to help you heal, to feel your feelings again, to bring back the love and closeness, and to finally see that what you want as a couple is within your reach. Let’s uncover what comes next for you. Schedule your free relationship support session.

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The greatest desire of all couples, is to experience LOVE and CONNECTION and to avoid HURT and REJECTION. If you’re lacking connection and not feeling the love… If you’re currently experiencing hurt or rejection…let’s get you both the relief and support your relationship deserves right away! You are both worth it!

Discover how my process has helped couples like you, to fall in love all over again...
And truly experience the happiness you’ve been craving in your relationship.

Happy Clients

Mary Morris, Realtor, Mother of three and proud Grandmother.

This is not therapy. It is BETTER!

We’d been struggling for years, living separate lives. Our relationship had been sexless for 10 years, and although we’d seen numerous marriage counselors, things just weren’t getting better. I had enough and was about ready to leave before I was referred to Hailey. With her guidance and tools, we learned to communicate, trust and reconnect with each other. After just two intense sessions, we not only began reconnecting on a deep level, we started making love again. I can truly say, we have never been happier or more in love. Hailey’s methods are unique to any other marriage counselor and she is the first person that was helpful for our marriage and each of us individually. This is not therapy. It is BETTER! The methods in her book, HAPPY LOVE, are the same methods we used with her in our private sessions and let me tell you… they work. If you and your spouse are struggling or even contemplating separation or divorce, make sure you see Hailey first. Don’t wait until problems set in. Learn her methods and tools for HAPPY LOVE to prevent and solve problems in your relationship. Your relationship happiness hinges on it.

Sawdah Amode, Founder, KOZMYK Inc.

Under Hailey's guidance, we embarked on a journey of understanding and forgiveness that ultimately saved our marriage.

When my husband and I were teetering on the edge of divorce, we felt like we had exhausted every avenue for help until we found Hailey. Hailey's approach was unique; she took the time to understand our individual histories and character through one-on-one sessions, laying the groundwork for effective couples therapy. Under Hailey's guidance, we embarked on a journey of understanding and forgiveness that ultimately saved our marriage. Hailey's insight and intuition seemed almost supernatural, as she effortlessly deciphered our emotions and communicated with unparalleled kindness and simplicity. The structured 90-day timeframe provided the necessary motivation for us to actively engage in the healing process. Years later, Hailey remains an invaluable part of our lives as both our couples and individual business coach. Her unwavering commitment continues to inspire us, and we wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone seeking profound and lasting change.

Craig Bobbie

Sophie and I start a new chapter of our lives!

Hailey Patry expertly guided our intimate couples workshop group through a series of very engaging and effective exercises to help facilitate what most couples want more of from their relationship - love, honesty, romance, sex, commitment, and trust. Hailey’s workshop was both extremely private (for each couple attending) yet still provided some very insightful and supportive group dialogue. I would highly recommend this workshop for any couple looking to tune up, re-energize or start a new chapter with their current relationship. Thank-you so much again, Hailey, for helping Sophie and I start a new chapter of our lives!

Jim Hetherington, Relationship Breakthrough Specialist, International Award-Winning #1 Best-Selling Author, father and happily married for 37 years.

Hailey has a heart of gold.

As a fellow colleague in the relationship help space and ordained minister, I simply adore Hailey and the unique perspectives and fresh approach she brings to couples coaching. We regularly share the stage delivering keynotes and workshops to hungry audiences searching for new ways to solve old problems. Hailey has a heart of gold; she is a ton of fun to work with and she is a powerhouse speaker and trainer. Don’t let her youth fool you, although her and I have two decades between us, I trust her work with my own family members, and you can too.

Stephaney Campbell, Founder of Inspired Weddings and Events

Hailey is not only my mentor, life/business coach and friend, she changed my life.

In 2 years, I went from feeling uninspired, powerless, shame, depression and the list goes on... Now I am genuinely happy, healthy, empowered and a kick ass mommy and fiancé! I must also credit Hailey for being instrumental on my path to engagement, after 1 emotionally charged session and an 8 years relationship. I am now engaged to the love of my life and getting married June 2021.

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Wondering if this is what your relationship needs? The first 30 minutes are on me!
You are worth it! Follow your heart and take the next step.

Not ready for one-on-one support just yet? 

Prefer to DIY your relationship fix? Then you’ll love my latest book: HAPPY LOVE – 5 Essential Steps to Help Frustrated Couples Fall in Love Again. Click here to get your copy! Or click here to browse the chapters and choose the one you want for free, as my treat to you. You can text your chapter selection to 416-797-5856 and it will be emailed to you.

In my latest book, in my private coaching programs, and in my workshops for couples, I cover some essential tools that you can’t afford to be without in your relationship.

None of the strategies are experiments. They have been tested and proven to work with countless couples who wanted what you want and got it: HAPPY LOVE! Now it’s your turn to create HAPPY LOVE.

This will transform your relationship if you do the L.O.V.E. Work. And you my friend… are worth it!

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On Infidelity...

Amazingly, infidelity can be the trauma that ends a relationship, or the trauma that shakes it to its core, allowing a couple, with the right professional help, to rewrite their entire relationship. All of the couples that I work with get to design their relationship to be better than it was before the infidelity. They get to fix the original root cause issues that predate the affair(s), and actually solve what was blocking their happiness all along.

“Many clients have shared that had it not been for their partner’s affair, they’d never have looked at, discussed, and healed some of the underlying issues that were broken at the foundation of their relationship. Rather than destroying the marriage, the affair acted as a catalyst for positive changes.”    – Michele Weiner-Davis

My clients who chose to stay together after infidelity, have better marriages now than they ever had before. They experience falling in love again, and for the first time in their relationship (and sometimes for the first time in their lives), they are totally vulnerable and open. They’re honest about the deepest secrets that they kept from the world and each other—about how they were raised, what their fears are, and what it takes to help them feel safe, happy, and loved. It’s extraordinary to watch a couple heal and rewrite their love story. But long before I will help a couple heal, I have six conditions that must be met in order to take you on. If these conditions are not met, I don’t feel confident that your relationship will recover, or that it is wise to even consider it. There are many great therapists and coaches in this world. If I’m the one you want to work with, these are the requirements to enter my practice as a couple, and create a full marriage (or relationship) restoration, with a vow renewal ceremony, upon graduating out of care.

Conditions and prerequisites for a marriage or relationship to have a good chance of healing after infidelity:

If infidelity has shown up in your relationship… I can help, and the first 30 minutes are on me!

There is hope!

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Remember this:

Love is like a faucet. It turns off and on.

– Billie Holiday

It’s time we get yours turned back on, and I’ll show you exactly how to do it. I’m here for you.
Lots of love,
Hailey xo

Services I offer as your Marriage Mentor:

If your relationship matters to you, and you’re willing to prioritize it, then you deserve my support as Your Marriage Mentor. You’re just 90 days away from a totally enhanced relationship!

Curious? Wondering if this is what your relationship needs? Schedule your free 30-minute coaching session today.

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You are worth it! Follow your heart and take the next step. 


This book is especially created for you, to ease your frustrations and help you fall in love with your partner all over again. Yes, you can… turn the challenged relationship you have into the thriving and happy relationship you crave and deserve. I will be sharing my proven 5-Step I.D.E.A.L. Love Method that I guide my private clients through, to completely redesign their relationships, including all 6 of the key tools for making your relationship extraordinary. This book is overflowing with practical tips, tools, processes and activities, that you have never seen before.